MODULE 10: Life’s Journey – Growth, Relationships, and Purpose
Life is a remarkable journey, full of twists and turns, challenges, and triumphs. Just as a traveller explores new horizons, our lives are marked by various phases and experiences that shape our identity. Among these experiences, relationships and marriage serve as pivotal landmarks, guiding us through companionship and commitment.
As we navigate this journey, it becomes evident that there are valuable lessons to be learned and skills to be acquired for professional success and a fulfilled, purposeful life. Life’s journey is an intricate tapestry woven with relationships, growth, purpose, memories, and experiences.
Just as travellers gather wisdom along their paths, we can cultivate a growth mindset and embrace an integrative lifestyle. By continuously striving for improvement in our spiritual, mental, emotional, and physical dimensions, we pave the way for a more fulfilling and impactful existence.
Adopting a growth mindset and integrative lifestyle is a transformative choice that can lead to better life outcomes. These concepts are anchored on Constant and Never-Ending Improvement (CANI), which emphasizes consistent growth across all facets of life. By nurturing these aspects, you lay the foundation for a well-rounded and harmonious existence.
With a growth mindset and integrative lifestyle, you can approach your relationships intentionally, nurturing them with skills that promote mutual growth. You can prioritize your health and well-being, equipping yourself to pursue your aspirations with vigour. You can also harness your creative potential and live with purpose, leaving a positive imprint on the world around you.
The value of relationship skills cannot be understated in one’s life journey. Instead of merely treading through the complexities of your relationships, you can equip yourself with the tools needed to be an exceptional partner and companion. These skills encompass effective communication, empathy, conflict resolution, and understanding. As we become adept at fostering healthy connections, our relationships become sources of mutual growth and support, adding depth and meaning to our journey.
Thank you for allowing me to share these insights on the root causes of relationship challenges and strategies to combat them, with the hope that they will serve as guiding lights on your journey.
Remember, even when faced with cracks in your life, relationships, and marriage, they are not insurmountable tears but challenges that can be overcome. You can mend and strengthen these areas with your innate talents, enriching your journey and leaving a lasting legacy by God’s grace.
Love always,
Dr Ifeyinwa Nwakwesi MBBS
Growth Mindset & Integrative Lifestyle Specialist
Executive Chair, Growth Mindset & Integrative Lifestyle Academy
The Phenomenal Woman
About the Author
Ifeyinwa Irene Nwakwesi is an alumna of Christ Church Primary School, Uwani Enugu; Queens School, Enugu; University of Jos; and graduated with an MBBS from the University College Hospital, Ibadan in 1979. She practiced as a conventional medical doctor and, through her personal experiences with depression, low energy, anxiety, and panic attacks, she transformed into a high-energy, vibrant, happy, positive, passionate, patriotic, and impactful woman through God’s grace, growth mindset, and integrative lifestyle.
She is known as The Phenomenal Woman and teaches that health, well-being, performance, and productivity should be viewed in the context of an individual’s total social existence. She specializes in chronic disease prevention, vibrant health, relationship, and marriage building. She motivates men, women, and youths to adopt a growth mindset and integrative lifestyle to live vibrant, passionate, patriotic, and impactful lives.
She is CEO of Healthy Living Services Nig Ltd and Executive Chair of Growth Mindset & Integrative Lifestyle Academy. She leads several communities, including:
- Chronic Disease Prevention and Vibrant Health Community
- Relationship and Marriage Building Community
- GMIL Youth Mentorship Community
- Leadership, Stress Coping, Conflict Resolution & Skills Acquisition Community
- Holistic Parenting & Healthy Children Community
She is also Executive Chair of Women Aligned For Growth (WAG), Enugwu-Ukwu Daughters Community Development Initiative (ECDI), and member of Ogbunike Progress Union Women’s Wing. She is a pioneer director of GTB and Global Bank, a board member of Fymak Group of Companies, Fymak Marine and Oil Services Nig Ltd, and Eco-Building Systems Nig Ltd. In 2002, she was recognized as one of the leading women entrepreneurs of the world by Star Group, USA.
She loves reading the Bible and personal development books, music, and dancing. She is married to Dr Maduka Nwakwesi, and they have five children, amazing spouses, and thirteen grandchildren.
She is the author of the Growth Mindset and Integrative Lifestyle series, including:
- Become An Asset To Your World Through Growth Mindset & Integrative Lifestyle
- Achieve Vibrant Health Through Growth Mindset & Integrative Lifestyle
- Root Causes Of Relationship And Marital Challenges And Solutions
- Acquire Stress Coping Skills