The Neilson and McCain family’s tribute to Chinwe From the siblings of Donnie Iyizoba
The Neilson and McCain family come before you today with hearts weighed down by the profound loss of our beloved Chinwe.
Even those among us who never had the privilege of meeting her in person came to know her through the stories, the laughter, and the deep love shared by our sister. Through her words, we understood the kind of woman Chinwe was—gracious, strong, and full of compassion.
We recognize and honor the extraordinary role Chinwe played in the lives of Donnie, William, Ifediche, Chekwube, and Malcolm. Her presence in their lives was not just important—it was foundational. She nurtured, guided, and loved in a way that left a lasting imprint on each of them.
For nearly 50 years, our sister found not only a husband in Willie but a family in Chinwe and the entire Iyizoba household. From the very beginning, Chinwe embraced her with open arms, offering unwavering support, acceptance, and love. That kind of welcome is not easily given, and it is never forgotten.
We remember when Willie first asked our parents for Donnie’s hand in marriage. Naturally, there were concerns—the distance, the unknown, the life that would take her far from home. But our grandfather, Caswell Stewart, in his wisdom, simply said, “Where the heart abounds, you must obey.” Those words proved true, for that union blossomed into a lifetime of love, strengthened by the kindness and generosity of Chinwe and her family.
Chinwe, alongside Ossy, gave us a gift we will cherish forever—the beautiful Nigerian wedding they so lovingly organized. It was a celebration filled with culture, joy, and unity, a reflection of the warmth and pride with which they welcomed our family into theirs. It remains a treasured memory etched in our hearts.
We are also grateful that before their passing, our parents, Desmond and Beryl Neilson, were blessed with the opportunity to meet and share precious, joyful moments with Mama Agnes Iyizoba during her visits to the US. These connections meant everything to us—they were bridges between families, between cultures, and between hearts.
Today, as we mourn, we also give thanks—for a life so beautifully lived, for love so freely given, and for the legacy Chinwe leaves behind in all of us.
Though our hearts are heavy, we take comfort in knowing that her spirit lives on—in her children, in her family, and in the countless lives she touched.
May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
With love and deepest sympathy,
The Neilson & McCain family